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2059次阅读|31个评论|2018年4月25日上午09时09分51秒

Cover of An Introduction to Chinese Civilization edited by John T. Meskill

当我参加马里兰大学,其中一个类的我真是历史和中国文化。当然,在覆盖过程中的材料包括中国哲学和道教的一些突出特点。主要文本的过程中,An Introduction to Chinese Civilization由John T. Meskill编辑,包括道教简短的概要。根据这本书,道教戒律核心之一是“做不这样做”。我不得不承认,这个概念完全逃过了我。我的前妻后来向我保证,我不可能理解中国哲学,除非我能在中国原创阅读。我来简单地接受这一点,因为我无法想象一个人如何曾经做的没有做它的东西。我的心简直不敢想象这样一个场景,那是甚至远程可能。

Thirty years later, I believe that I've finally gained some insight into this whole "do by not doing" business. Despite the freight train of nor'easters that have been pummeling the northeastern United States over the last few weeks, Chambersburg actually experienced a rather mild winter. The overall snowfall which we received this season seemed abnormally low. In a rather ironic twist, we received our largest snowfall on the vernal equinox, a day usually referred to as the first day of spring. It snowed all day on March 20th and into the night. By the time the snowing stopped, six to eight inches of snow had fallen on Chambersburg. It was one of the few significant snowfalls we received this year and the only one which exceeded two inches.

而我的邻居们都忙着去除他们的汽车雪,我决定先不管它。由于命运的安排,我没有在暴风雪后立即驾驶任何地方。如果没有一个相当紧迫的理由去除雪,我说出了我的天性和什么也没做。

天气很快就改变。阳光照射,气温上升,积雪融化我的车了。因此,我的车没有努力在我的部分的开支被清除的积雪。突然,“做不做”做出了很大更有意义对我来说,虽然我严重怀疑,老子有这一点,当他写了Tao te Ching,but it did work for me.

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#2018年4月25日9时09分41秒通过JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

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为什么?因为如果你道歉,你告诉她,你错了,她是对的,但在现实中,你都是错误的,都表现得一败涂地。瞬间道歉告诉她,你错了,她是对的,这表明她的行为是确定的。相反,沉默了片刻的情况下,她想道歉后,表现得好像什么都没有发生,做任何若无其事,你会做。把它放在一边,让她这样做。只要东西觉得他们是恢复正常,但不是在此之前,告诉她你爱她,你希望无论你永远不会再那样做。

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#2018年4月25日九时10分37秒通过JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

我喜欢讨论这个话题。虽然我已经阅读道家一点点,这是太少是指它作为研究反正主题。此外,我都忘了一点知识,我已经从我的阅读获得的。然而,在读您的博客,我马上想到了如何适用那句“做的188bet官方网址没有做”西服几乎人类关系的各个方面。我认为这是特别适合于约会,浪漫关系和婚姻。

这里有几个例子,仅基于我自己的观点:

约会:你见过有人专门和你的第一次约会,你有你有过与你刚刚认识一个女人的最佳时机。188bet官网你有惊人的吸引到这个女人,你一定她分享你同样的感受。DO提高你的,你要这么多的事,这是只要你回家,叫她来声明令人难以置信的强大对她的188bet官网感情和你的信念,你把这个日期成为一个伟大的长期关系不这样做的东西的机会是命中注定的一对。

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更重要的是,如果你错了,她不会因为强烈的感受,你匹配,你这样做,但没有享受的日期和你是有点兴趣,那么你将不会出现她是一个潜在的疯狂的死缠烂打,但仍188bet官网有机会与你的吸引力压倒她的第二次约会。188bet官网

婚姻:你有一个collosal战斗,尖叫在她的部分,喊上你的。事情是由两个你说,你做梦也没有想到你会这么说来,或者被告知,即使是你最大的敌人,不要介意你对生活的热爱。你的一部分在烈怒的夜晚。当你下一次走到一起,DO保持不这样做你立刻感受到你必须做,这是道歉的关系和婚姻。

为什么?因为如果你道歉,你告诉她,你错了,她是对的,但在现实中,你都是错误的,都表现得一败涂地。瞬间道歉告诉她,你错了,她是对的,这表明她的行为是确定的。相反,沉默了片刻的情况下,她想道歉后,表现得好像什么都没有发生,做任何若无其事,你会做。把它放在一边,让她这样做。只要东西觉得他们是恢复正常,但不是在此之前,告诉她你爱她,你希望无论你永远不会再那样做。

我欢迎大家谁读这个博客提供其他的例子中,“难道不这样做”生活的任何方188bet官方网址面都是适用的。

我也欢迎你跟我不同意,以我的例子。

What say you RWByrum?

#2018年4月25日11时21分09秒通过Barry1 @Barry1


@JohnAbbot

“我欢迎大家谁读这篇博客中,以提供在生活的任何方面其他例子‘难道不这样188bet官方网址做’是适用的。”

From my experience, I've found that the harder I try to meet someone, the more impossible it becomes. I have a gnawing feeling that if I simply stop or at least slow down my search for a partner, then things will then fall into place naturally.

Do by not doing.

非行动实现。

通过默认的成功。

这一切真的很简单,不是吗?

Or by not doing, is this just adopting a whipped dog attitude, cowering in sullen defeat?:^)

#2018年4月25日13点09分18秒通过RWByrum @RWByrum

@JohnAbbot

I certainly don't disagree with either of your examples, John.

#2018年4月25日十六时15分42秒通过melcyan @melcyan

Do by not doing。Don’t just react, take time to choose your response. Sometimes the patient pause allows you the time to see that your first impression was wrong and no action is necessary.

#2018年4月26日8点57分32秒通过JohnAbbot @JohnAbbot

@Barry1 - "Or by not doing, is this just adopting a whipped dog attitude, cowering in sullen defeat?

In answer to that question I would say it is not applicable to one's "doing by not doing" until that moment when he/she starts to question if it is applicable, and from that moment on it is.

#2018年4月26日9时13分05秒通过RWByrum @RWByrum

@melcyan

Your response makes a great deal of sense, at least as much as anything else I have read on the subject. But considering that this was one of the guiding principles of Taoism, I suspect that it is something that is meant to be practiced all of the time, in every situation. I suspect that much more was implied than simple fatalism.

I will say one thing, however. This article was not meant to be taken seriously.

#2018-04-26 20:49:37 bymelcyan @melcyan

我用Google搜索的意思是“Do by not doing“and found interesting responses in Quora. After reading responses on Quora I would like to offer another response to the meaning of “Do by not doing”

Flow is everything. Fear, worry, anxiety and doubt take us out of the natural flow of life and result in our doing requiring中付出了大量努力。Everything we need to know about life can be found in the flow of a single breath. If you are inside the natural flow of life (free from fear, worry, anxiety and doubt) your doing is毫不费力

冥想是非常强大的,但它在做什么?我知道这是一个问题,但它也可能是答案。

#2018-04-26 22:22:45 bypaulfox1 @paulfox1


@Barry1

I wrote a whole blog about this. You're NEVER going to find a $50 note on the footpath if you go looking every day.

Instead, you'll find it once you STOP looking.

I met a couple, yesterday, who 'met' while he was fishing, and she was jogging. She tripped over him as she jogged under a bridge.

我记得几个会议,几年前,世卫组织'met' because he, quite literally, 'ran her over' with his car.

如果有一件事我已经在过去的15个月左右学会,它的这个.....

一切.......我的意思是一切,发生的原因!

We may not know what that reason is at the time, but we will, eventually.

也就是说,我的朋友,你能够“主动到银行”!

#2018-04-26 23:03:32 bypaulfox1 @paulfox1

@RWByrum



Doing by not doing' is not just a Taoist principle, but a much deeper one.



询问并应给予”或‘敲门,门会打开’,是指具有相同的含义古老的寓言。



我们有一个人类经验的精神的人。



我们都在同一水平上,(频率)工作。



一个很好的例子是“因果报应”。你回来“你“给出了”是什么。我已经证明了我自己在很多场合,所以我知道这是真的。



Our TRUE history has been hidden from us. You live in a land that was once owned by indigenous people. They were 'raped-and-pillaged' in the name of 'progress'; to allow YOU to live the life you have become accustomed to.



当你花5分钟,你应该做一些研究,在世界各地的“巨石结构”,并问自己“谁建造他们呢?”



Monoliths that were built out of tonnes and tonnes of rock, in ONE piece, then transported across miles and miles.



Look at a picture of 'Devil's Mountain', (and others), it's a fossilised TREE STUMP! (There were giants in the Earth in those days).



不这样做”这样做是过着极其简单的原则......和它的作品!


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